old, boring couple
No.
Husband and I always want to go out and do things, but our friends in relationships don’t enjoy going out. They would rather stay in, just see a movie or head to the casino. I get so annoyed by this. Last night my co-workers were talking about a few weekends ago when they went out dancing and I asked why was I not invited to do this fun dancing?! His response was that it didn’t seem like my thing…because I don’t drink and because we are married. What?! I know that this is what most people think. That our levels of fun are limited because we signed a marriage license. This is absolutely ridiculous and definitely not the case. We love having get-togethers and hanging with friends but no one wants to. One weekend we camped at the lake all by ourselves because no one wanted to go out in the sun. I mean, what in the world, right? So last night I thought about this and put my foot down! We are going to have fun this summer, if it’s the last thing I do!
I’m not sure why I am making such a fuss over this. I suppose it’s because I don’t want to spend my summer cooped up or because I want to keep us young and change things up a bit. We’re too young to just sleep. eat. work. There is more to life than the bare minimum and we want to experience it. Especially before we have children! There is no sense in all work and no play.
With that being said…
Husband needs more guys nights out, problem is all of his friends, well, their significant others don’t allow this. It is so sad when Husband wants to go out with the guys and they restrained by what the can and can’t do. I feel so bad for him! I think maybe we need to put an ad out there.
young married couple in search of other young married couples. Adventurous, outgoing, fun, up for a night out…etc.
Despite what most people believe, marriage can be so fun…that is if you allow yourselves that opportunity. Going out together and having a good time is even better when you have someone to share it with!
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marriageandthensome likes this
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cameramasmommy said:
I completely agree. People act like settling down is a death sentence or something-like you’re missing out on life. Well no-you are just choosing to share it with your best friend!
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chelsearuns said:
Why oh whyyy can’t you live in Alabama? People ask me why I’m wasting my youth by getting married so young all the time. And I’m all like,”since when does being married mean no fun…?”
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hastywife posted this