A New Found Self (by TheMrsHasty)

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Daydreaming

I’m sitting at work just imagining a perfect night at home, not worrying about my busy life. I could use a night in silk pajamas, a robe, barefoot, cuddled next to Husband on the couch listening to the storm, watching movies or both reading. A glass of wine would go nicely.

I’m hoping, no, praying that this is what my honeymoon is like, four nights of this up in a cabin in the mountains. Money is always the issue though. Anyone interested in donating to the “make my honeymoon awesome” fund, be my guest.

Day 21: What is your partner’s dream job?

Husband graduated with a degree in criminal justice, a specialty in juvenile detention. He would love to work for the Children’s Division, he’d like to be a detective for them, be the one that would go and pulled children from bad homes. If you ever met him you’d know he’d be the perfect one for this job!

Day 19: Name one thing your partner did in the last month that upset you that they didn’t know upset you.

Usually we’re pretty good at letting one another know when we’re upset or something has bothered us. He can almost always tell when he’s done something that’s frustrated me so this is difficult. 

I guess it would have to be the incident a few weeks ago, we’re far from over it and I did end up talking to him about it but he spent the whole day in the dark. I had mentioned something I wanted to do with him and he completely disregarded it and made a bunch of other plans and just totally forgot about anything I wanted. I didn’t want to start something but it ended up being a bigger deal than I thought. I just hoped he would catch on and we could still go on with my plans, but that never happened. 

Easy Bakin’

We pulled out the Easy Bake Oven, she’s never used one before and Mom had it in my garage! Also we went to the cemetery to thank Grandpa for his service. 

Happy Memorial Day! 

Diary of the Young and Married

Husband left for work around 9:55 am, I kept telling myself that when he did I would wake up, get ready, go workout, go get more job applications, see Grandpa’s grave all before work tonight. So what do I do? I go right back to sleep until his mother calls me. She just got a facebook and thought that one of the edited, goofy pictures was her baby falling off his motorcycle. um, nope. She is way too funny, needless to say, I’m up. I made myself a delicious solo breakfast, this day is about to begin. 

Yesterday was great. My mom had a little BBQ for Memorial Day/little cousin’s birthday party and it was so incredibly relaxing. For the first time in a while being with all of our family didn’t stress us out. We ate and set out in the sun just talking for hours while all the little kids played in the pool. We started to talk about the vacations we want to take when Husband brought up our honeymoon vacation and I told him, “we always plan on saving but all of your new toys cost just as much as our vacation and we end up spending on those instead.” I’m glad I said something because he told me that we would have the money for whatever I wanted and that this was something I deserved and it was my turn to have that. I was so surprised but mainly relieved. My psychotic planning has begun, later I woke up and saw that he added things to our Bucket List (the one he didn’t seem to interested in before). I think this man shocks me more and more over the years. 

Being married, you don’t think about yourself as much so it’s awesome when your partner puts the extra effort into you instead of themselves and allows you the upper hand. That’s how it should be, thinking of the other person and giving to one another, with no hidden agenda, just because you love that person. There are so many things we hope to accomplish and I believe that we will if we keep doing things the way that we’re doing them. 

-A Wife

Monday is here.

Obsessing Over: finding a second job.

Working On: the delicious breakfast I just made for myself.

Thinking About: rather or not the university rec center is open today so I can go run and what time I should go, what time I should go to Walmart and get what I need for dinner, what time I should stop at Grandpa’s grave to thank him for his service. There’s a lot to fit in before work.

Anticipating: July, when Husband and I head for Chicago!

Listening To: birds chirping, taunting me to come into the real world.

Drinking: Orange Juice, soon my Iced Coffee!

Wishing: Someone would call me about a second job, and that I had a tredmill. 

Happy Memorial Day!